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the second wave |
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| women in poverty |
Sept 15, 2008 |
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Dear Friend,
A rare moment... shocked Marsha as
we pulled up to
the curb Sunday night- I was driving the van! Caught
off guard-
stepping back -she said: "Well, I guess if you're going
to drive the van I have to hug you when you get here."
Hugging her back, I could only think: "Thanks Bart!"
That's Marsha, in her mid 60's, and last night she told
her own war stories. Jodi was serving chili and
Marsha wanted to go over the night she "misbehaved
badly" in line. Smiling, I felt like asking: "Which
night?" But she was already well into her story of our
Christmas party on the streets when she almost
brought the entire line to a halt demanding more chili
without waiting in line again. Laughing she said: "I
just love Jodi's chili!" We all shared a bowl before
leaving the church... Marsha's right... it's almost worth
fighting for!
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a measure of who we are... |
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Jackets for Jesus began as a ministry
to men on the streets. 20 years ago the women who
worked alongside me stood out in the night... not even
prostitutes bothered with skid row... the danger in
poverty, unchecked, pushed all but the most
desperate away. It didn't seem possible that society
accepted men living on the streets of skid row... not in
America... Across the last decade women have
become such a large part of the social fabric of skid
row that many of the missions have transitioned their
work away from men and now target women and their
children first. When we started working with children
in Mexico, people would often say that the way the
culture treated cast off children was her measure.
Now, on Wednesday afternoons, looking at dogs that
are living in misery, without food, fighting for life on the
dusty streets around Siempre, I've heard people say
how we treat our pets is a measure of our
compassion. I can't help but think of the women who
now crowd the streets of our cities. In just 20 years of
service, they're the second wave of those fighting
poverty we serve week in and week out. With major
bank failures, home foreclosures and family's facing
their greatest financial battles since the great
depression, I can't help but wonder about the who,
when and where of the third wave of those we'll serve
on the streets. The early indicators are all pointing
towards senior citizens as their numbers swell in our
line. Sunday night, with a small crowd of maybe 125-
150 people, I'd say 30% of them were 55 or older.
Hard to say if this is a trend yet- the way the first
women felt forced into darkness to stand in our line -
most of the services for young people on the streets
are in the Hollywood area -and maybe some of the
folks in line have just gotten older with us across the
years. Even still, it's disturbing that we accept so
many women and men living in open poverty. Over
100 people waiting in the middle of the night and
that's on a small night... still waiting for one of the
presidential candidates to visit skid row and to speak
up on behalf of those it seems too many of us would
rather forget. Their struggle for survival is a measure
of who we are as a society... as a church... as
individuals. They're who Jesus was talking about
when He taught about judgement and "the least of
these." We overlook them at our own peril.
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our view |
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Too many nights this is what I see of
most of the men and women waiting for a jacket, a
sandwich, a drink, a meal... just the side of their head.
Standing at the head of the line- making a break every
10 guys or so, hoping to give a little order -I'll shake
hands, put my hand on a friends shoulder, quickly say
hello... but for the most part... I just send folks forward
to the main event... last night... chili worth fighting
over. This guy stopped in front of me and I took a shot
of the side of his head- cigarette neatly tucked behind
his ear -hat protecting his head from the cool night
air. We briefly talked about Friday's tragedy on the
Metro-Link tracks. While we were chatting, large
buses rolled past us down Main St on their way to
Union Station and points beyond to build a bus bridge
to fill the gap until track repairs can be
completed. Too many good people lost in an instant.
Dozens and dozens more hospitalized and facing
weeks, months and years of healing. The city bus
system is a lifeline for those on the streets. Any
disruption in service is feared as much as we might
dread our cars breaking down. Poverty doesn't mean
that people no longer care about their financial well
being, making it to a job interview or getting to a
doctor's appointment at county or VA hospital- poverty
just makes each of these actions more difficult and
their success all the more important. Mass transit in
the city is an essential part of life. One of the most
popular reasons to panhandle is for bus fare. I've
often considered keeping a separate fund just to
purchase bus passes to hand out from time to time.
My view of the streets may be a little closer up than
most- but it's still just a profile shot at best -catching a
moment... usually a good one... in the middle of the
night. Our view of the Metro Link tragedy forces us to
face all the "what if" questions we long to avoid: "What
if I'd been on the train?" "What if it'd been my dad,
mom, sister, brother?" "Would I ever ride in the front
car again?" On the streets those questions hit
home... but so many haven't seen the news
coverage... they hear the stories, hearts go out and
people begin to ask: "What if my bus doesn't run this
week?" "What if I can't catch my train?" Our view
impacts our perception of all we do. Keep those who
lost loved ones and all those still healing in your
prayers. Pray also for those who depend on our rapid
transit system to make it back and forth to work each
day. It was a hard weekend on the heart of LA.
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only at Jackets for Jesus |
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Thanks... I think... If you donated that t-
shirt. It sure got me in hot water last night! Ed, one of
our regulars and a guy with way too much brain
power, received that lovely article when he went
through line. It'd already been a big night for him:
Jaime, who uses our phone to call his niece in
Ecuador each week to check on her health had tried to
hook her up with Ed. Jakamina was on the phone
when Jaime handed it to me. She wanted to thank us
for praying for her surgery- all went well and she's
recovering wonderfully -a little busy with the line, I
handed her off to Ed and said: "Here- talk to someone
in Ecuador." Never at a loss for words, Ed jumped on
the line and started talking and that got Uncle Jaime
thinking and he started yelling in the
phone: "Jakamina, Ed's single! Good looking! An
American!" Not quite eharmony online... but Uncle
Jaime was doing his best to get the two hooked up!
Apparently she caught on, changed her manner to a
much more friendly and direct approach with Ed and
within a matter of a minute, he was handing the phone
back to me to end the call. Looking at me with eyes
that said: "Thanks a lot!" He held up the t-shirt in the
photo and said "What's this supposed to be... your
new logo?" "Who do you guys work for anyway!?!" No
clue where the t-shirt with the flaming skull in the
middle of a complex pentagram came from but I know
Ed's planning on working it for all it's worth. We
circled for prayer, Ed with the t-shirt over his shoulder
and just as we held hands he threw me a sly look and
said: "I don't know if I can pray to your God anymore...
satan might not let me into hell - he can be pretty
jealous!" Someone who just needed a new t-shirt
couldn't get it... it had to be Ed. I'm sure he's already
looking forward to wearing it this Sunday night.
Whether it's Marsha waiting at the door for a hug, long
distance "hook-ups" to Ecuador or the sarcasm of the
streets- it's always something on Sunday nights.
Through tragedy, heartbreak, hunger and a growing
need for compassion and love... Jesus speaks,
regardless the graphic on the t-shirt, His presence is
real and is making us ready for the next wave of those
forced to the heart of our city by poverty. The
opportunity to serve in the middle of the darkness is a
miracle in and of itself... and You're Invited! You're
Needed! Now, more than ever. We're going this
Sunday night. We'll do our best to save a place for you
in the van.
for changing lives,
Eric M. Denton
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