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What a great smile... really enjoyed
talking with this kid for a few minutes Sunday night. I
snapped his picture with my phone and it came out so
well - showing it to him, I asked if he knew his mom's
cell phone # and we'd text it to her. I've got kids in their
20's, knew she'd love to see it... to hear from him. The
suggestion brought a sudden end to our
conversation. When I read there are more than
100,000 men, women and children living on the
streets of LA, I always think of individuals I've met...
people like this young guy in our line. Get up close
and personal and so much of the fear of poverty falls
away and we discover people... hurting, lonely, hungry,
cold... but people, just like you and me. As our
economy has faltered over the last month, maybe
more of us have considered the reality behind the old
saying: "There, but for The Grace of God..."
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Driving by... it's easy to stereo type the
homeless... to think less of them and more of
ourselves. I've done it. Some guy's standing on a
corner with a sign that says "Will work for food," and
it's hard not to think, "I'll bet." We watch the faces of
people driving by our line. At the stop light,
some stare as if it's finally safe to look at people from
another planet... (watched one couple in a beutiful,
very expensive car, actually laugh at us as they
watched
the line, I'm guessing we are a strange site in the
darkness), others, look and than just as quickly,
look away... as if that'll make the poverty at the heart of
our cities go away... not looking at it. Snapped this
little shot from the middle of Main St. We had a van full
of workers and I had the evening to spend time with
people. Holding up my phone, straddling white lines
in the middle of the road, guys in line yelled: "Be
careful Eric!" "Get out of the street!" Enough to make
me miss my mom! Running back over to the line, a
first timer, yet to get his meal, called me to his place in
the long crowd. Reaching into his pocket he pulled
out four $5- bills and said: "I've never been here
before, but I want to thank you for what you're doing
and make a contribution... I might get to come back for
next weeks dinner." Looking more than a little
shocked as he pushed the crumpled bills into my
hand- I told him how rarely someone in line has given
us cash over the last 20 years... just a few times.
Instead of throwing his shoulders back and acting
proud, he said: "Twenty years! That's a dollar a year.
Thanks again." The line moved forward. He slipped
back into the faceless crowd and guys behind him
took the time to say things like: "That was really
sweet." "Pretty cool Eric!" "Can you give me $5?"
Twenty dollars comes and goes in our lives without us
even noticing it... most of us pay more than that for the
internet connection we're using. Doubt this first timer
had a savings account to back up his generosity... just
a heart filled with thanksgiving. From a distance, it's
impossible to catch the small acts of love and
humanity that keep hope alive in the heart of darkness.
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The real one on one in our service
takes place across the tables- at the main event -
Jodi's dinner. Sunday night was our first really chilly
evening... I'd foolishly worn shorts and was freezing...
came home cold, cold, cold... thinking about all the
guys we'd served who couldn't go home... while I
pulled the blankets up close, were looking for a place
to sleep on concrete... I hate complaining about when
I've been cold on the streets. Jodi, always looking out
for the crowd, had, along with her team, spent Sunday
afternoon making huge pots of steaming, home made
chicken vegetable soup It was an incredible hit. One
of our regulars in line said: "I'll bet Jodi made this
because she had a cold last week." Jodi's thoughtful
like that... she may have been thinking about all the
people who don't have anyone to make them chicken
soup, get them cold medicine or care for all the little
needs someone takes care of for us when we're sick.
Thought it was cool that at least one person in line felt
like he was being cared for and had been paying
close enough attention to someone else the week
before to see that they were working sick. Another guy
said: "Hey! Guess this really is a soup line tonight!"
So much
happens across those tables... so much more than a
meal served: a kind word, a smile, gentle
encouragement... loving ways... it's where we're at our
best - where we meet each other in service. God's
blessed us in ways we never imagined, broken
barriers we didn't even know we were living with, as
we've shared across those tables in the middle of the
night.
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"This is mom..." it's hard not to hear
bits and pieces of conversations as men and women
try to reach out and reconnect. "Mom" reached the
voice mail of her son in New York- told him she was
ok, she loved him, could he call? Jaime caught up
with his niece and family in Ecuador- she's still
looking for a husband... preferably a U.S. citizen! One
of our regulars - he speaks very little English - tried his
best to reach his family in Mexico city. He's got a court
date today (Monday) and he's trying to bring his son to
the U.S. He held the picture of his one year old as I
dialed again and again without ever getting through.
We prayed, everyone had left the corner and he held
out in desperate hope until I finally put the phone in my
pocket and walked away. LA is so very far away from
home in Mexico city, a son in New York, family in
Ecuador. Sunday nights, after enjoying a meal, men
and women reach out in love, doing their best to
reclaim some small portion of normalcy in their lives.
It almost always starts the same way: pulling out a
wallet, digging through tightly folded, precious papers,
they hold out a number and ask me to dial it.
Anticipation begins to ignite a new spark in their eyes
as I wait for the phone to ring and suddenly- hope is
so thick, in the middle of the desperation, it could be
cut with a knife. You did that. Your loving support pays
for their calls, for every bowl of soup, each tuna
sandwich, the gas in the van... not to mention the
jackets... without you there'd be no jackets, blankets,
warmth to wrap around the shoulders of men and
women left in the cold. Each week, as Christmas
draws near, people ask about the backpacks... will we
still have our Christmas Party on the streets? We
reassure them... Christmas is coming, they won't be
forgotten... just the same... high gas and food prices
have eaten into our savings... money usually saved by
this time to purchase backpacks is at a premium as
too many of our supporters have been hit by the
financial gloom. There's never been a better time than
today to make a generous gift to Jackets for
Jesus.
We've already reserved the huge rental truck to haul
the tons of backpacks to the streets. It's coming up
quickly on time to order them... and in between it all
we're preparing for Thanksgiving and our 21st Free
Thanksgiving Day Dinner... taking our earliest
reservations ever... poverty never sleeps... people are
worried... many living beyond their fear, waiting for the
other foot to fall. I'm so thankful to share
Jackets
for Jesus with generous people like you.
People who've seen the need and are quick to give.
We can't put every family back together- but we can do
all we can to put hope back into the hearts of that one
family member who, for whatever reason, is far from
home. It's one of the main reasons we go to the
streets every Sunday night. Lord willing, we're going
next Sunday. You're Invited! You're needed. Now,
more than ever.
for changing lives,
Eric M. Denton
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