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giving thanks
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a blended update
Nov 10, 2008
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This Week on The Streets... and at Siempre
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25 children... 5 sisters, neighbors of
Siempre, share 25 children- that's 3 of the sisters, all
in their 20's, in the photo above with 12 of their kids. In
contrast- the small photo is of Nephtali doing some
dishes in our kitchen at Siempre, adjoining our dining
room. The home these children live in- all of these
children -is smaller than just our kitchen. One of the
great blessings of Siempre has been not only giving
shelter to Siempre's kids, but also becoming a heart
in the community for hurting families. It's always best,
as long as the children are safe, when families can
stay together. This BIG family has come to depend on
Siempre for food, clothing, formula and many other
needs. Can't begin to imagine how they manage their
household- not to mention give hope to their children.
Good friends and their small group are
considering "adopting" the family as part of their loving
outreach. Every community is filled with families in
need. We can't reach them all... but I'm quite certain
these 25 kids and their moms are going to have their
best Thanksgiving and Christmas ever because of
Siempre... because of you. God's opening up so
many doors for us to reach our arms out in love.
Thanks so much for sharing the joy. He's too good.
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More than Babysitters
That's little Danny. He's as cute as his
photo. He and his older brother Brian live at Siempre,
along with their mom, Consuellos, one of our
workers. Consuellos grew up an orphan in one of
Tijuana's larger orphanages. When she was old
enough, she became an employee. She eventually
married, had kids... was tragically abandoned by their
father... and now they're all finding and giving healing
as
she shares in raising her own and Siempre's family.
Her heart is in it... even still, looking in her eyes, all too
often it's easy to see that she still carries a deep pain
that I'm certain will only heal with God and time. She,
along with Alejandro and Aracelys, Pastor Israel and
Vanessa are all learning, day by day, how to balance
raising their own children in the midst of the larger
Siempre community. Somehow- as Christmas
approaches and they sit at the bedsides of Siempre's
kids and hear their prayers, along with their dreams of
a great Christmas morning... they must find time for
their own children... to consider those special
moments they deserve as the family gather's
together. And Consuello... doesn't have a memory of
what it might have been like to have celebrated a
holiday with a loving mom and dad... not too many
memories of a family together... so as a working
mom... working 24/7, she'll somehow need to find joy
to bring to her children from a special spot that she
never knew. Please keep her in your prayers. Thank
God that when her family fell apart she didn't abandon
the boys but chose to stick together. Reason enough
for us to stick with her in the weeks to come. Each of
our workers are so much more than babysitters.
They're individuals who've committed themselves...
their lives... to safely raising up Siempre's family.
They've been called of God and I believe their service
is celebrated by The Father.
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Fence Update
So many good things... Siempre's
been in the middle of more than we ever imagined
when we began our work in Tijuana almost 10 years
ago. We built our dental clinic over 16 months ago...
after months of repeated efforts we finally managed to
get the donated dental chairs, etc... across the border.
This Wednesday, after so much waiting, it's all getting
installed and will soon be ready to serve not just the
children of Siempre but our extended outreach in the
community as well. We've had a couple of dentist in
Tijuana offer to give their time and a number of dentist
here in California show interest as well. If your a
dental care provider a great door of service is opening
for you at Siempre. If you'd like to get in on the ground
floor- let me know. Special thanks to Dr. George
Ricks for sticking with this from day one. Wish I could
be their Wednesday morning to watch it all go in.
Money for the fence is coming
together. Now it's getting a team of workers to do the
job. You can see the opening in the background
behind Lupita. This week the problem was
neighborhood dogs finding their way in. A good friend
of Siempre, who lives in the community, had walked
down to volunteer a little time- getting much needed
work accomplished. Downside was, he takes his
dogs with him everywhere he goes. Deeper
downside, they attract dogs from all around and
embolden them to wander onto our property and of
course every child wants to pet them. Most are friendly
and no problem... others... well other dogs were
fighting, growling and appeared to be a genuine
threat. The kids have all learned how to throw rocks to
protect themselves... don't think that's PETA approved
repellant, but effective none the less. I worry about
just one of the kids getting bit. Our son John was bit
on the face as a child and we know the pain, expense
and long term healing that one dog bite can require.
And that was a dog with shots. Don't know what
happens when a kid's bit by a strange dog that runs
off. Can't wait for the new wall to go in all around
Siempre. Apparently, the dogs are still the least of our
concerns. Tom and Ellen Buckingham drove down
separately for the day. They're so good at getting
around Baja now. Tom said on his return Thursday
he read in the paper that there were 14 additional drug
related killings in TJ... while we were there on
Wednesday. Pray that peace is restored and that our
Siempre family and all those who travel to serve at
Siempre remain safe. Thanks so much to those of
you who've given to provide for the safety of the wall. If
you'd still like to give- don't hesitate. If you're an able
worker and would like to join a team to build the wall-
let us know.
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Chilly Weather
Just 9 of us went to serve on the
streets Sunday night. We've grown so use to having
14 or 15 on a regular basis that we all have to step it
up a bit when we're missing a team member or two.
Karl, one of our long time workers, recently moved to
San Diego and we miss him dearly. Think we all
thought as hard core as he is that he'd be driving back
and forth every Sunday night! Karl- we miss you
buddy. I really miss him. He always stayed with Jodi
through the final lock up so I could head home... now
I'm trying my best to cover his job and staying 'til
everything's done in the kitchen. Didn't realize how
spoiled I was. Jodi and her team had cooked all
afternoon and the crowd was greatly appreciative of
the incredible meal. The smell of Mexican casserole,
Spanish rice and hot chocolate filled the urban
corridors and a good time was had by all. Bart walked
the line and handed out our bags- then quickly started
giving everyone a jacket, sweater or sweatshirt
against the cold night air. People received them with
open arms and in thanksgiving. The guy in the photo-
one of our regulars -stepped up and as the line
doubled in size, started making sure that everyone
had a bag. Very cool. In the heart of a city that's taken
away the trash cans for the homeless... I'm sure
there's some warped logic behind it... we again pack
our own 40 gallon cans... it's humbling to watch men
and women clean the streets before we leave the
corner. One guy, long time friend of us all, says he
hangs out for at least an hour after we leave each
week just to make sure everything's in order. So
many, who have lost so much, have come to feel a
sense of pride and ownership in Jackets for Jesus.
Our times together not only warm bodies and fill
stomachs... they fill our spirits as God reminds us of
the miracle He's creating in the heart of our city.
Whether there are 9 or 90 of us- each week we do our
best... it's an amazing opportunity to serve in the
darkness.
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The "Combat Zone" Revisited
The "combat zone." That's what the
homeless called our line in the early years. The only
line that sets up in the darkness- more than
occasionally attracted it's fair share of dark moments
as men and women fought over jackets, food... I've
seen knives come out over a peanut butter sandwich...
but it's been a long time since we've had any serious
fighting... until last night. Instantly recognizable, the
shouting, angry voices- well away from the line -men
gathered up against a fence. Bart and I ran in that
direction only to find a young man at the wrong end of
5 or 6 other guys fist and feet as he fell to the ground.
Watching movies where a guy gets kicked in the ribs
and face is one thing- standing next to it -yelling, trying
your best to break it up as the sound of flesh is
breaking is another all together. Everyone backed off
as we stepped in and gave the young guy room to
stand up- incredible what a human can tolerate. A
good friend on the streets stepped in to help out and
immediately the involved were headed away. A couple
guys said the man they were beating had stolen
something from them... another said he'd knocked
over their plate of food. Trying to regain his balance-
adjusting an apparently broken nose -the guy pulled a
cell phone and started making calls, I grabbed his
dinner plate for him. Not ten minutes later the fight
broke out again in front of a bar across the street with
a number of other people involved... they'd left, we
didn't know them... no longer much we could do. We'd
told them to "Take is somewhere else..." They did.
Fortunately skid row bars have security that put the
matter to rest in just a few minutes. When the weather
turns cold, tempers can burn red hot. I imagine
there's at least one young man with a very sore body
today... so many others who left with their spirits filled.
Quick to stand beside us in the middle of the anger,
thankful for the time we share together. Love the
photo above- found it Sunday amidst the street art on
the sidewalk. The message is clear and
simple: "Thank you God for the Jackets for Jesus." It's
so easy to turn our backs on poverty, hunger,
darkness in fear. Things can get a little crazy. It can
be more than we bargained for, but the blessings... a
simple prayer of thanksgiving scrawled onto the
streets, speaks to us in the night. Pray for the
continued peace of our work together. Pray for those
involved in the fight last night. Pray for people across
America living in poverty. We have the opportunity to
be a healing force... pray for us.
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Thanks so much for your part in Siempre
Para Los Ninos and Jackets
for Jesus. It's a great time of the year to
share in Thanksgiving. Many of you know that at Centr
al Community, home to both Siempre and Jackets
for Jesus, we serve a free dinner to our
community on Thanksgiving Day. This is our 21st
Annual Thanksgiving Dinner and it's grown in
popularity as the need has grown. We're planning to
feed over 2,500 people. You're Invited. If you don't
have plans for the day: if something's happened in
your family, money's tight, if you'd just like to spend
Thanksgiving with us- you're invited. If you can't get
out and you'd like dinner delivered- we'll deliver more
meals than you can imagine this year... and we'd love
to be of service to you. Don't spend the day alone or
hungry. And if you'd like to volunteer for part or all of
the day, you're invited. God's blessed us wonderfully
and together we can be a blessing. If you're in the
food service industry and/or have great connections at
this time of the year- we're always open to donations -
be creative, what you give might make someone's
Thanksgiving and change the course of their path
towards Christmas. Know that we're thankful for you.
We're going to Siempre on Wednesday and the
streets this coming Sunday. You're invited. You're
Needed. Now, more than ever.
siempre... and for changing lives,

Eric Denton
Siempre Para Los Ninos & Jackets for Jesus
phone:
1-951-689-5806
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